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		<title>By: Ryan</title>
		<link>http://www.lostlaowai.com/blog/general/chinas-stolen-children/#comment-12151</link>
		<dc:creator>Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2008 03:31:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Beverly, I am sure there are legal rights for mothers, but I&#039;m not entirely sure what they are. However, family is very much through the male&#039;s side here. Though a woman will rarely take her husband&#039;s family name, the children always do. The father&#039;s parents are the &quot;real&quot; grandparents, and the mother&#039;s parents are somewhat second-class. Additionally, when a woman marries (at least traditionally), she is considered to have left her original family and joined her husband&#039;s family.

Of course, in modern urban families, this is rather loose. However, for the masses of very traditional rural population, I would suspect this is still very much so.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Beverly, I am sure there are legal rights for mothers, but I&#8217;m not entirely sure what they are. However, family is very much through the male&#8217;s side here. Though a woman will rarely take her husband&#8217;s family name, the children always do. The father&#8217;s parents are the &#8220;real&#8221; grandparents, and the mother&#8217;s parents are somewhat second-class. Additionally, when a woman marries (at least traditionally), she is considered to have left her original family and joined her husband&#8217;s family.</p>
<p>Of course, in modern urban families, this is rather loose. However, for the masses of very traditional rural population, I would suspect this is still very much so.</p>
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		<title>By: Beverly Ho</title>
		<link>http://www.lostlaowai.com/blog/general/chinas-stolen-children/#comment-12147</link>
		<dc:creator>Beverly Ho</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2008 22:53:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just saw the movie, &quot;Stolen Life&quot;, about a young man who scams young women into believing he loves them, impregnants them, and sells the babies. Don&#039;t mothers have any rights in the PRC?? I was shocked, if it is close to the truth, that no court was invloved in determining who would get custody of the child?? I realize that China is more conservative than most of the US, but children can just be taken away from the natural mother, without her consent??In the US, the child&#039;s biological family, esp. on the mother&#039;s side, has the first rights to the child, and it takes a while for those rights to be terminated. My own dear little niece, just 3 years old, is the product of a love affair between my sister and her one-time boyfriend. They never married, thank God, but I and my brother, as aunt and uncle, have rights where the child is concerned, if anything were to happen to my sister. I can&#039;t imagine a country where the courts aren&#039;t involved in these very serious matters.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just saw the movie, &#8220;Stolen Life&#8221;, about a young man who scams young women into believing he loves them, impregnants them, and sells the babies. Don&#8217;t mothers have any rights in the PRC?? I was shocked, if it is close to the truth, that no court was invloved in determining who would get custody of the child?? I realize that China is more conservative than most of the US, but children can just be taken away from the natural mother, without her consent??In the US, the child&#8217;s biological family, esp. on the mother&#8217;s side, has the first rights to the child, and it takes a while for those rights to be terminated. My own dear little niece, just 3 years old, is the product of a love affair between my sister and her one-time boyfriend. They never married, thank God, but I and my brother, as aunt and uncle, have rights where the child is concerned, if anything were to happen to my sister. I can&#8217;t imagine a country where the courts aren&#8217;t involved in these very serious matters.</p>
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		<title>By: Sadeen</title>
		<link>http://www.lostlaowai.com/blog/general/chinas-stolen-children/#comment-11598</link>
		<dc:creator>Sadeen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Nov 2008 12:37:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a mother of a 5 years old beautiful girl.  I saw a girl of 4 or 5 naked on the street with blood dripping from her lip and legs spread wide apart in TaiShan, China with over three digit temperature begging for money.  It is NOT by choice she was there.  She was kidnapped and forced to beg for monies for these inhuman creatures!  
Something I do not understand people like Ben, who is so cold and heartless!  Ben, what if you were the bleeding naked child left every morning on a cold or hot days to beg for money.  I think your comments will be different.
I praise you Ryan!!!  I wish I am in a position to help these kids find their parents!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a mother of a 5 years old beautiful girl.  I saw a girl of 4 or 5 naked on the street with blood dripping from her lip and legs spread wide apart in TaiShan, China with over three digit temperature begging for money.  It is NOT by choice she was there.  She was kidnapped and forced to beg for monies for these inhuman creatures!<br />
Something I do not understand people like Ben, who is so cold and heartless!  Ben, what if you were the bleeding naked child left every morning on a cold or hot days to beg for money.  I think your comments will be different.<br />
I praise you Ryan!!!  I wish I am in a position to help these kids find their parents!</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan</title>
		<link>http://www.lostlaowai.com/blog/general/chinas-stolen-children/#comment-7449</link>
		<dc:creator>Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 10:35:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Josh!: Been a while. Baby keeping you busy I guess eh? If she&#039;s too much for you... I&#039;ve got a potential buyer - and I am near certain they won&#039;t grind her up and attempt to feed her to the gods. ;-)

The &quot;final solution&quot; reference was most definitely intentional. What I&#039;m trying to illustrate is that if we start letting any group of people decide for us what we are allowed to do and not to do to ourselves, we restrict one of the most basic human freedoms. In giving someone such power, for the good of the people/country/race/planet, we most definitely push ourselves closer to a brave new world.

PS: Where&#039;d the puppy mill thing come from? Just general (good) advice?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Josh!: Been a while. Baby keeping you busy I guess eh? If she&#8217;s too much for you&#8230; I&#8217;ve got a potential buyer &#8211; and I am near certain they won&#8217;t grind her up and attempt to feed her to the gods. <img src='http://www.lostlaowai.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>The &#8220;final solution&#8221; reference was most definitely intentional. What I&#8217;m trying to illustrate is that if we start letting any group of people decide for us what we are allowed to do and not to do to ourselves, we restrict one of the most basic human freedoms. In giving someone such power, for the good of the people/country/race/planet, we most definitely push ourselves closer to a brave new world.</p>
<p>PS: Where&#8217;d the puppy mill thing come from? Just general (good) advice?</p>
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		<title>By: Josh</title>
		<link>http://www.lostlaowai.com/blog/general/chinas-stolen-children/#comment-7448</link>
		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 10:23:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>p.s. that check you&#039;re referring to is called a die off. I don&#039;t know how dangerous the slope is, but it is pretty gooey.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>p.s. that check you&#8217;re referring to is called a die off. I don&#8217;t know how dangerous the slope is, but it is pretty gooey.</p>
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		<title>By: Josh</title>
		<link>http://www.lostlaowai.com/blog/general/chinas-stolen-children/#comment-7447</link>
		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 10:08:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It isn&#039;t really a &quot;less-than-Olympic light&quot;. According to the legend, the first Olympics were held by Pelops. Pelops was the son of Tantalus. Tantalus was having the gods over for chow but didn&#039;t have anything appropriate to serve, so he ground up the only thing he was proud of - his son, Pelops. The gods were disgusted, set up a special punishment for Tantalus (see tantalize) and brought Pelops back to life and gave him some really cool stuff. One of the gifts was a team of horses he&#039;d eventually use to...anyway...the gods once ate a kid who would go on to become the first gold-medalist. That&#039;s an Olympic story. Baby-napping has nothing on that. &lt;a href=&quot;http://peer-see.com/blog/korean-fan-death-and-baby-soup/2006/08/11/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Baby soup, though...&lt;/a&gt;

Also - Puppy mills are awful and should be shut down! All of them! Nobody should buy puppies from puppy mills! If you think you may be adopting a puppy from a puppy mill, don&#039;t. That&#039;ll teach the puppy mills to stop...er...milling puppies. In fact, to make sure your puppy doesn&#039;t come from a puppy mill, you should only buy a puppy from an AKC-registered, licensed breeder of puppies.

Remember, kids: NO puppy from a puppy mill can expect to live a happy life - no matter how much you love it. They should never have been brought into this world, and they should be dispatched from it as quickly as possible. 

Also - the &quot;final solution&quot; is taken. Try, &quot;what&#039;s the best solution?&quot; And I truly hope you aren&#039;t trying to draw comparisons between the two. 

Also - don&#039;t steal my baby!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It isn&#8217;t really a &#8220;less-than-Olympic light&#8221;. According to the legend, the first Olympics were held by Pelops. Pelops was the son of Tantalus. Tantalus was having the gods over for chow but didn&#8217;t have anything appropriate to serve, so he ground up the only thing he was proud of &#8211; his son, Pelops. The gods were disgusted, set up a special punishment for Tantalus (see tantalize) and brought Pelops back to life and gave him some really cool stuff. One of the gifts was a team of horses he&#8217;d eventually use to&#8230;anyway&#8230;the gods once ate a kid who would go on to become the first gold-medalist. That&#8217;s an Olympic story. Baby-napping has nothing on that. <a href="http://peer-see.com/blog/korean-fan-death-and-baby-soup/2006/08/11/" rel="nofollow">Baby soup, though&#8230;</a></p>
<p>Also &#8211; Puppy mills are awful and should be shut down! All of them! Nobody should buy puppies from puppy mills! If you think you may be adopting a puppy from a puppy mill, don&#8217;t. That&#8217;ll teach the puppy mills to stop&#8230;er&#8230;milling puppies. In fact, to make sure your puppy doesn&#8217;t come from a puppy mill, you should only buy a puppy from an AKC-registered, licensed breeder of puppies.</p>
<p>Remember, kids: NO puppy from a puppy mill can expect to live a happy life &#8211; no matter how much you love it. They should never have been brought into this world, and they should be dispatched from it as quickly as possible. </p>
<p>Also &#8211; the &#8220;final solution&#8221; is taken. Try, &#8220;what&#8217;s the best solution?&#8221; And I truly hope you aren&#8217;t trying to draw comparisons between the two. </p>
<p>Also &#8211; don&#8217;t steal my baby!</p>
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		<title>By: eva</title>
		<link>http://www.lostlaowai.com/blog/general/chinas-stolen-children/#comment-7429</link>
		<dc:creator>eva</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2007 07:45:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>After seeing the documentary I just don&#039;t have words to express my sadness for these children, taken from their families or sold and ending up who knows where. I can&#039;t get out of my mind this little baby girl face, so beautiful and vulnerable... as well as Chen Jie&#039;s eyes... I feel deeply moved and very sad for their destiny. Life is not fair for them, I wish I can do something to help them and I will pray everyday for their souls. I hope they will be with people who will treat them right and they are happy wherever they are.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After seeing the documentary I just don&#8217;t have words to express my sadness for these children, taken from their families or sold and ending up who knows where. I can&#8217;t get out of my mind this little baby girl face, so beautiful and vulnerable&#8230; as well as Chen Jie&#8217;s eyes&#8230; I feel deeply moved and very sad for their destiny. Life is not fair for them, I wish I can do something to help them and I will pray everyday for their souls. I hope they will be with people who will treat them right and they are happy wherever they are.</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan</title>
		<link>http://www.lostlaowai.com/blog/general/chinas-stolen-children/#comment-7413</link>
		<dc:creator>Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Oct 2007 07:16:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Ben: I think the difference is between defining &quot;fault&quot; versus &quot;responsibility&quot;. It may not be the &quot;fault&quot; of the government or policy, but it is the responsibility of both to rectify the problem.

I agree with Philip that traffickers are nothing but slavers. People who see other people as a commodity and nothing more.

I think it takes some extraordinary circumstances to create even a few of these people, never mind the manpower needed to oil this abduction machine.

That is created by a demand on a scale that is simply not present in other countries (giving pretty solid proof that it is because of family planning policy) coupled with extreme poverty and the promotion of disconnect between groups outside your family unit.

I don&#039;t think there&#039;s any one specific thing that causes any of the problems in the world, but it&#039;s hard to ignore something that so directly points at a flaw.

These are deep rooted problems. When did it become ok to think we need to tell people when, how and how many children they can have.

As it relates to overpopulation, country-wide or world-wide, perhaps I have a naive view that the Earth itself has checks and balances to control such things. As for putting that power in the hands of humans, that&#039;s a dangerous dangerous slope to tread. What&#039;s the final solution?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Ben: I think the difference is between defining &#8220;fault&#8221; versus &#8220;responsibility&#8221;. It may not be the &#8220;fault&#8221; of the government or policy, but it is the responsibility of both to rectify the problem.</p>
<p>I agree with Philip that traffickers are nothing but slavers. People who see other people as a commodity and nothing more.</p>
<p>I think it takes some extraordinary circumstances to create even a few of these people, never mind the manpower needed to oil this abduction machine.</p>
<p>That is created by a demand on a scale that is simply not present in other countries (giving pretty solid proof that it is because of family planning policy) coupled with extreme poverty and the promotion of disconnect between groups outside your family unit.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think there&#8217;s any one specific thing that causes any of the problems in the world, but it&#8217;s hard to ignore something that so directly points at a flaw.</p>
<p>These are deep rooted problems. When did it become ok to think we need to tell people when, how and how many children they can have.</p>
<p>As it relates to overpopulation, country-wide or world-wide, perhaps I have a naive view that the Earth itself has checks and balances to control such things. As for putting that power in the hands of humans, that&#8217;s a dangerous dangerous slope to tread. What&#8217;s the final solution?</p>
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		<title>By: Philip</title>
		<link>http://www.lostlaowai.com/blog/general/chinas-stolen-children/#comment-7408</link>
		<dc:creator>Philip</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2007 08:04:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A hugely emotive subject, which I find rather difficult to look at objectively, and thus a most thought provoking post. 

However, I am minded to agree with the last comment where Ben says that the population problem is a regular time bomb here, which we should not detonate.

On the other hand, there was a period in the not too distant past when the population was encouraged to grow, under the belief that you had to have the manpower to build the new China. This may in part have led to the current population problem. A friend of mine is one of many children born to the same mother in that period. She was heself adopted by an Aunt.

I believe the trafficers are slavers at heart. They do not care a jot about human life, and their ilk exists in every continent. A fair chunk of the population of America are there because my ancestors did the same thing. The slave trade dies in one place and flourishes in another, sometimes in the most unexpected places

So it is that the rich rule over the poor.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A hugely emotive subject, which I find rather difficult to look at objectively, and thus a most thought provoking post. </p>
<p>However, I am minded to agree with the last comment where Ben says that the population problem is a regular time bomb here, which we should not detonate.</p>
<p>On the other hand, there was a period in the not too distant past when the population was encouraged to grow, under the belief that you had to have the manpower to build the new China. This may in part have led to the current population problem. A friend of mine is one of many children born to the same mother in that period. She was heself adopted by an Aunt.</p>
<p>I believe the trafficers are slavers at heart. They do not care a jot about human life, and their ilk exists in every continent. A fair chunk of the population of America are there because my ancestors did the same thing. The slave trade dies in one place and flourishes in another, sometimes in the most unexpected places</p>
<p>So it is that the rich rule over the poor.</p>
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		<title>By: Ben</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ben</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2007 01:10:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>While China&#039;s family planning policy no doubt exasperates the need to have a son, and likely also the demand for kidnapped children, you can&#039;t fault the policy nor the government for all of the trafficing.  China&#039;s Family Planning Policy is the cause of a laundry list of social problems for China today, and also will be for the next half century.  However, the Family Planning Policy will prevent China from experiencing a large-scale catastrophe which will be worse than the effects of all these problems combined...and that is the continued overpopulation to the point where China&#039;s carrying capacity is eclipsed.  It is easy for western filmmakers to sit back and criticize the Chinese government for all the problems that are generated when you are trying to govern one fifth of the world&#039;s population, and I have many grievances myself...but the One Child Policy is not one of them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While China&#8217;s family planning policy no doubt exasperates the need to have a son, and likely also the demand for kidnapped children, you can&#8217;t fault the policy nor the government for all of the trafficing.  China&#8217;s Family Planning Policy is the cause of a laundry list of social problems for China today, and also will be for the next half century.  However, the Family Planning Policy will prevent China from experiencing a large-scale catastrophe which will be worse than the effects of all these problems combined&#8230;and that is the continued overpopulation to the point where China&#8217;s carrying capacity is eclipsed.  It is easy for western filmmakers to sit back and criticize the Chinese government for all the problems that are generated when you are trying to govern one fifth of the world&#8217;s population, and I have many grievances myself&#8230;but the One Child Policy is not one of them.</p>
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